Ok, so last night I gave probably some of the worst advice ever... "Think with your head, not your heart or your dick." Advice I am not willing to follow myself, because I know decisions are made with a combination of all of those things, but mostly the first two. Without them, we would be a cold unfeeling world. We know that we have probably made decisions with too much of one or the other because of the reactions that we have to the stimulus around us. I woke up in the middle of the night heart broken that the crush was in bed with the kid. I certainly didn't use my head when going into this, I used my too much of my heart and not enough of my head. Silly boy.